How to use WEFAMINotifications
The bell in the top bar, and choosing what it should tell you about.
The red number is how many are unread. Press the bell to open the panel; pressing a row marks it read and takes you where it points.
On a phone the panel drops down as a wide strip just under the top bar.

Go to Account → Notifications. Turn birthday and memorial reminders on or off separately, set how many days ahead, and choose the solar or lunar calendar.
The Who to remind me about box narrows the range: close family only, relatives, or everyone. In a large family, leaving it wide means a bell every day.
You are only reminded about profiles whose birth and death dates you may see. A date hidden by its permissions never surfaces here either.
Stuck on anything, however small, just write. Nothing is a silly question the first time you use something.
Calling during Vietnamese office hours is quickest; outside those hours write instead and you will hear back the next working day.
For a bug, please say: which page you were on, what you clicked when it broke, and whether you are on a computer or a phone. A screenshot helps. Never send your password — we will never ask for it.